We grow up in a world where our value is determined by our compliance, our usefulness. We are taught that self love is nothing more than a concept. Something we read about, like the sound of but deep down don’t really know what it is. Usually its seen as being something inspirational, a quick hit or boost of words that are forgotten once we’ve put the computer down or closed the book. Truthfully all self love really requires to bloom is the willingness and decision to let go of the pain we inherit and carry through our lives.  It might surprise you to learn that the pain or illness your are currently carrying is nothing more than the body’s response to the lack of love you are showing yourself.