Jeff Foster: To see and be seen
Conflict in relationship is not a sign of failure.It is inevitable, just as pain as inevitable in the body. Pain is not the problem; it is our relationship with pain that defines the quality of our connection. Are we willing to connect, despite the pain? Are we willing to let our hearts break together? Each instance of conflict is an opportunity. For misunderstandings to be brought into the light. For recognising the places where we have stopped listening to ourselves, and to each other. Where we go into fantasy, where we dissociate from the living truth. Where we blame…