Conflict in relationship is not a sign of failure.It is inevitable, just as pain as inevitable in the body. Pain is not the problem; it is our relationship with pain that defines the quality of our connection. Are we willing to connect, despite the pain? Are we willing to let our hearts break together? Each instance of conflict is an opportunity. For misunderstandings to be brought into the light. For recognising the places where we have stopped listening to ourselves, and to each other. Where we go into fantasy, where we dissociate from the living truth. Where we blame…

She let go. Without a thought or a word, she let go. She let go of the fear.  She let go of the judgments.  She let go of the confluence of opinions swarming around her head.  She let go of the committee of indecision within her.  She let go of all the ‘right’ reasons. Wholly and completely, without hesitation or worry, she just let go. She didn’t ask anyone for advice. She didn’t read a book on how to let go.  She didn’t search the scriptures. She just let go.  She let go of all of…